Men vs Women & Skin Care: Are Men Really That Different?

Men vs. Women: A Skincare Perspective

Are Men Really That Different?

About six years ago, I wanted to do something special for my husband on Father’s Day. After tossing around ideas with a close friend, I decided to create a treasure hunt for him. For me, a treasure hunt involves hiding clues in different places, leading to a final reward—but only after completing the hunt. It may sound quirky, but it was fun and absolutely worth it.

The day started out great! I planned to have some kid-free time for just the two of us. After a lively family breakfast (with five boys, a dog, and a cat, it was barely coordinated but memorable), I handed my husband his first clue, and the treasure hunt began.

Midday, it was time for the pampering portion of the hunt. I transformed part of our living room into a spa-like retreat. After reading the next clue, I blindfolded him, guided him to a chair, and removed the blindfold. His reaction was priceless.

To my surprise, he had never had a spa experience—and wasn’t eager to try one that day. It took some convincing, but I made it happen. I explained the importance of skin care and how it benefits everyone, not just women (more on exfoliation benefits for men later).

When I began the facial, my husband was resistant. He insisted facials were for women and not for men. I wondered how many other men shared this mindset. Determined to set the record straight, I embarked on a mission to debunk the myth that taking care of your skin is just a "woman thing."

I started with a mini facial using the JLTC Deep Pore Charcoal Facial Mask to detoxify his skin, reduce the appearance of large pores, and remove excess sebum—and he loved it. What began as a one-time pampering session quickly became a regular routine of facials, exfoliation, and more.

Before this experience, my husband never considered exfoliating before shaving. After trying it, he admitted it felt clean, refreshing, and even soothing. He now uses the Coconut Scrub Pre-Shave Exfoliate before every shave. This scrub removes dead skin cells, lifts hair follicles for easier shaving, and prevents ingrown hairs.

Today, if I don’t routinely give my husband his "personal pamper time," he makes a point to let me know he’s due for a facial. This journey taught me that while men and women may differ in some skincare needs, the desire to care for one’s skin is universal. However, men's skin does have unique characteristics that require specific attention.

Understanding Men’s Skin Structure

• Thicker Skin: Men’s skin is 20-30% thicker than women’s (Rebecca Tung, MD).
• More Hair Follicles: Higher testosterone levels result in more hair follicles.
• Larger Pores: Genetics, age, and lifestyle factors contribute to larger, wider pores.
• Increased Collagen: More collagen provides structure and smoothness.
• Higher Elastin Levels: Elastin keeps skin flexible and tighter.
• Dense Blood Vessels: This produces more sweat and often attracts more dirt.
• Outdoor Exposure: Many men work outdoors or play sports, increasing dirt buildup.

These differences inspired me to formulate skincare products tailored for men and educate them on the importance of caring for their skin. After all, countless men have told me they don’t get facials, exfoliate, or follow a skincare routine.

The Bottom Line

Most men don’t prioritize skincare the way they should. Whether due to lack of knowledge, interest, or time, the reality is that skin care isn’t just for women. The more men understand the benefits of proper skin care and commit to a routine, the healthier and more confident they’ll feel.

Taking care of your skin isn’t a luxury—it’s a necessity for everyone.